Obituary
CANANDAIGUA — Surrounded by his family, Ralph E. Dewey, 82, finished his earthly race on Aug. 29, 2024, and entered the presence of his Savior after battling months-long health challenges. The longtime history teacher, athletic coach, administrator, and mentor, left an indelible impact.
Friends may call on Friday, Sept. 6, from 4-7 p.m. at Zion Fellowship, 5188 Bristol Road, Canandaigua, where a celebration of life will be held at 11 a.m. Sat. Sept. 7 and broadcast live on the Zion Fellowship YouTube channel, https://www.youtube.com/@ZionFellowship-Canandaigua . A private burial with military honors, in Overackers Cemetery, Middlesex, will precede the service.
Ralph was born Dec. 2, 1941, to the late Ralph and Eleanor (Marriott) Dewey of Geneva. A 1959 graduate of Geneva High School, Ralph played baseball and football, and sports became a lifelong delight. At SUNY Brockport, he played hockey and earned a B.S. in Education. In his first job at Middlesex Valley Central School, Ralph taught high school history. In his second and third year, he coached the boys’ varsity basketball team to back-to-back Section V Class C championship titles, during the Vikings’ 1964-65 and 1965-66 seasons.
In 1966, Ralph enlisted in the U.S. Army, serving primarily at bases in Virginia and Thailand during the Vietnam Conflict, coordinating soldiers’ sports and recreation among other duties. After his honorable discharge as a staff sergeant in 1970, he returned to Marcus Whitman Central School, reassigned to junior high history. On the first day of in-service training, he met Shirley Ann Brasted, the junior high science teacher. They were married May 1, 1971.
Ralph earned his permanent teacher certification that year at Brockport, completed masters courses in education, and began courses in administration. As he and Shirley raised their children, he marked 20 years at Whitman, primarily in high school history. Ralph also invested many seasons as assistant or head coach for the Wildcats’ freshman and varsity football, freshman basketball, and modified baseball teams, serving as athletic director from 1978-86.
In 1986, he became director at LeTourneau Christian Conference Center in Rushville, where he and the full-time and seasonal staff hosted ministry retreats and camps. When a 1996 fire destroyed the family home and Dining Hall, Ralph led the team through a resourceful summer of service amid construction before returning to a second teaching career, at Lima Christian School.
In addition to his 9th–11th-grade U.S. History and Global Studies classes, he also taught AP history courses to LCS students through Genesee Community College. He again served as a boys’ basketball coach, first for JV players, then varsity. Echoing the athletic feat some 35 years before, his 1999-2000 and 2000-01 LCS teams won Section V titles in Class D. In 2000, Ralph received Class D Coach of the Year honors.
Ralph’s time at LCS included roles as athletic director, assistant principal and, in 2004, principal. After retiring in 2009, Ralph returned to teach history part-time for the next five years, with multiple stints as a head basketball coach and as an assistant coach to former players.
He returned to LeTourneau as interim director from August 2014 through February 2015, remaining on the board of directors into 2023.
A longtime member, Sunday School teacher, and deacon at Middlesex Baptist Church, Ralph joined Crossroads (formerly Lima Baptist) Church during his tenure as LCS principal. As a veteran and patriot, Ralph also served as an Ontario County elections inspector.
He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Shirley; his daughters Rachel, Debbie (Dave) Eckert, and Terri; his son Nathan (Emily) Dewey; seven grandchildren; brothers-in-law, Martin (Evelyn) Brasted, and Lee (Martha) Brasted; sisters-in-law, Lucile (Fran) Clancy; Ellie (Dick) Bossard and Ellen (Jon) Horton; numerous Brasted nieces, nephews and extended family.
He was predeceased by his parents, aunt and uncle Geraldine and George Dewey, nephew Chad Clancy, and niece Diane Brasted Kempf.
Ralph was a servant-leader, mentor, storyteller — and lover of his Savior, his family, his sports teams, word search puzzles, Pontillo’s Pizza, and Diet Coke.
“But seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” – Matthew 6:33
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to: Lima Christian School, ccny.us/dewey or to LeTourneau Christian Center, 4950 E. Lake Rd., Rushville, NY 14544.
Funeral arrangements are by the Perkins-Ames Funeral Home (kenperkinsfuneralhome.com).
For a full-length tribute, or to share videos, photos, and written memories, visit: www.online-tribute.com/RalphDewey.
Services
Calling Hours
Zion Fellowship Church
Bristol Road, Canandaigua
Celebration of Life
Zion Fellowship Church
Bristol Road, Canandaigua
Condolences
Dave Celuch from Baldwinsville NY on Sep. 4, 2024
Mr. Dewey will be remembered as a tremendous teacher and coach. My deepest condolences to the Dewey family.
Jim Young from Evanston , IL on Sep. 6, 2024
My mom called me tonight and shared the sad news about the passing of Ralph Dewey. Mr. Dewey was the consummate teacher. At Marcus Whitman, he was my history teacher and football coach who inspired everyone he interacted with, in the classroom and on the field. His passion for teaching and mentoring students and athletes left a lasting impact on so many lives, mine included. Please know that my thoughts and heartfelt condolences are with his family, friends, colleagues, former players and all those who were fortunate enough to know him.
May his legacy of dedication and desire to excel live on in our memories.
Chris Grzeskowiak from Stanley New York on Sep. 6, 2024
Condolences to the Dewey family. Although it’s been many many years our lives crossed paths back in the day. First as a student at Marcus Whitman and then as a member of the maintenance staff at MW. Ralph was Athletic Director and I was the Grounds Keeper. We communicated pretty much every day regarding schedule for the week, field availability and prep. We had our differences and disagreements but through it all I had respect for him.
“Service to others pays the rent for your room in Heaven”. I’de say that Ralph’s rent is paid in full…. Rest in Peace.
Dan Paddock from MDX, ny on Sep. 6, 2024
Coach, you're the best history teacher. I love history to this day. You are the great coach for the valley, for 2 years of Championships. I was glad and proud to play for you and know you as a friend and a Christian man. God speed, bless your family. And with your new body coach work on your jump shot and we'll play 1 on 1 again someday.Take care, dp
Marlene Button from Rushville, NY on Sep. 10, 2024
I so enjoyed Mr. Dewey's history class. I still remember some of his stories from his time in the military. My condolences to the family.
Patti and Randy Eddinger from Geneva, NY on Sep. 24, 2024
As students , then as fellow teachers, we remember Ralph so fondly. He was so kind and helpful when I began coaching, always encouraging me. We are sending prayers your way now as you miss this good man.
Dianne Bray from Shortsville NY on Sep. 27, 2024
I just saw thar Mr. Dewey passed. I was his nurse at the VA. he was always very nice and polite. We'll see you soon Ralph...we're all right behind you.